Fix minor typo in install instructions

The old way is deprecated and would stop working
after Ansible 2.11.

Coturn reports it as an option that conflicts with `use-auth-secret`.
Some reasoning is here: fa523e8d09

`--log-driver=none` is used for all Docker containers now.

All these containers are started through systemd anyway and get logged in journald,
so there's no need for Docker to be logging the same thing using the default `json-file` driver.
Doing that was growing `/var/lib/docker/containers/..` infinitely until service/container restart.

As a result of this, things like `docker logs matrix-synapse` won't work anymore.
`journalctl -u matrix-synapse` is how one can see the logs.

If the playbook were to run with `--tags=setup-nginx-proxy`,
it wouldn't go into `setup_corporal.yml`, which meant it wouldn't
perform a bunch of `set_fact` calls which override important
nginx proxy configuration.

We run these variable overrides on each call now (tagged with `always`)
to avoid such problems in the future.

Update installing.md

Fix link to using external PostgreSQL in README

Add mautrix-telegram to bridge with telegram services

Fix typo
Move mautrix variable in `defaults/main.yml` exclusively

I've found the previous 10K default value to be way too low
on a bunch of servers I'm running, so it's now up to
100K and made configurable.

Closes Github issue #5

Closes Github issue #3

We've been using Goofys for a long time instead.