Postgres is not in `matrix_docker_network` anymore, so what we had
before could not possibly work anymore.

This is an attempt at optimizing service startup.

The effect is most pronounced when many services are restarted one by one.
The systemd service manager role sometimes does this - for example when `just install-service synapse` runs.
In such cases, a 5-second delay for each Synapse worker service
(or other bridge/bot service that waits on the homeserver) quickly adds up to a lot.

When services are all stopped fully and then started, the effect is not so pronounced, because
`matrix-synapse.service` starts first and pulls all worker services (defined as `Wants=` for it).
Later on, when the systemd service manager role "starts" these worker services, they're started already.
Even if they had a 5-second wait each, it would have happened in parallel.

`--mount` is safer, as `-v` has the side-effect of creating the "source"
destination as a directory if it doesn't exist yet.
We don't need such magic.

This is backward-compatible with what we had before. We're not changing
the SSL mode - just making it configurable.

Most components are defaulting to `sslmode=disable`, while some
(`matrix-bot-matrix-reminder-bot` and others) do not specify an `sslmode` at all.

We're making sslmode configurable, because certain external Postgres
servers may be configured to require SSL encryption.
In such cases `sslmode=disable` does not work and needs to be changed to
`sslmode=require` or something else (`verify-ca`, `verify-full`, etc).

Related to: https://matrix.org/blog/2023/07/bridges-security-updates/

https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-appservice-irc/releases/tag/0.38.0

https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-appservice-irc/releases/tag/0.37.1

We expect `--tags=start` to handle systemd reloading, so we don't need
to do it manually each time we install/uninstall a .service file.

- forego removing Docker images - it's not effective anyway, because it
  only removes the last version.. which is a drop in the bucket, usually

- do not reload systemd - it's none of our business. `--tags=start`,
  etc., handle this

- combine all uninstall tasks under a single block, which only runs if
  we detect traces (a leftover systemd .service file) of the component.
  If no such .service is detected, we skip them all. This may lead to
  incorect cleanup in rare cases, but is good enough for the most part.

This fixes a regression since the change done in c1c152f7ac.
When another role (say `matrix-jitsi`) included `roles/custom/matrix-base/tasks/util/ensure_openssl_installed.yml`,
which then included `{{ role_path }}/tasks/util/ensure_openssl_installed_DISTRO.yml`,
that `role_path` variable would end up being the parent role
(`matrix-jitsi`) and not the `matrix-base` role, so we'd get a failure.

An alternative solution may have been to avoid using `role_path`, but
importing roles properly (like we've done in this patch) sounds like a better way.

Unfortunately, `import_role` fails if `tasks_from` is something like
`util/ensure_openssl_installed` (containing a `/`), so I had to move
these utils out of `util/`.

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2228

This paves the way for installing other roles into `roles/galaxy` using `ansible-galaxy`,
similar to how it's done in:

- https://github.com/spantaleev/gitea-docker-ansible-deploy
- https://github.com/spantaleev/nextcloud-docker-ansible-deploy

In the near future, we'll be removing a lot of the shared role code from here
and using upstream roles for it. Some of the core `matrix-*` roles have
already been extracted out into other reusable roles:

- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.postgres
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.systemd_docker_base
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.timesync
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.vars_preserver
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.playbook_runtime_messages
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.playbook_help

We just need to migrate to those.