This also raises the default from 5 seconds to 15 seconds.

Regression since 3fd6fd647f

Pretty much all variables live in their own `matrix_<whatever>`
prefix now and are grouped closer together in the default
variables file (`roles/matrix-server/defaults/main.yml`).

Since cbee084ac19b6, this playbook supports Postgres 10.x,
but keeps existing Postgres-9.x installs on 9.x.

This playbook can now also be ran with `--tags=upgrade-postgres`
to make it upgrade from Postgres 9.x to 10.x (or other versions
in the future).