This also updates validation tasks and documentation, pointing to
variables in the matrix-synapse role which don't currently exist yet
(e.g. `matrix_synapse_container_labels_client_synapse_admin_api_enabled`).

These variables will be added soon, as Traefik labels are added to the
`matrix-synapse` role. At that point, the `matrix-synapse-reverse-proxy-companion` role
will be updated to also use them.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2444

- forego removing Docker images - it's not effective anyway, because it
  only removes the last version.. which is a drop in the bucket, usually

- do not reload systemd - it's none of our business. `--tags=start`,
  etc., handle this

- combine all uninstall tasks under a single block, which only runs if
  we detect traces (a leftover systemd .service file) of the component.
  If no such .service is detected, we skip them all. This may lead to
  incorect cleanup in rare cases, but is good enough for the most part.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2090