.. regardless of whether matrix-nginx-proxy runs in a container or not

When setting `matrix_nginx_proxy_enabled: false` and enabling authentication on the metrics endpoint, the htpasswd file is hardcoded to the nginx-proxy container dir, this changes the hardcoded value to a variable so the path can be updated

People often report and ask about these "failures".
More-so previously, when the `docker kill/rm` output was collected,
but it still happens now when people do `systemctl status
matrix-something` and notice that it says "FAILURE".

Suppressing to avoid further time being wasted on saying "this is
expected".

For an unknown reason prometheus ignored the given "numeric" index and replaced it by 1. This made it not work properly, plus multiple workers of same types were not differentiable. With a "string" index, it works as intended.

* Add support for obtain ECDSA keys

* Replace matrix_ssl_lets_encrypt_use_ecdsa_keys for matrix_ssl_lets_encrypt_key_type

Reverts b1b4ba501fdfaa, 90c9801c560b6, a3c84f78ca9c65a, ..

I haven't really traced it (yet), but on some servers, I'm observing
`ansible-playbook ... --tags=start` completing very slowly, waiting
to stop services. I can't reproduce this on all Matrix servers I manage.
I suspect that either the systemd version is to blame or that some
specific service is not responding well to some `docker kill/rm` command.

`ExecStop` seems to work great in all cases and it's what we've been
using for a very long time, so I'm reverting to that.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1498

Seems like Dendrite encourages serving both the Client and Federation
API at the same port.

Coming from Synapse and how things are done there, we have separate
ports. Using separate ports probably makes matrix-corporal (etc.)
integration easier, so separating the APIs by default probably makes
sense.

ExecStopPost should allow us to clean up (docker kill + docker rm)
even if the ExecStart (docker run ..) command failed, and not just after
a graceful service stop was initiated.

Source: https://www.freedesktop.org/software/systemd/man/systemd.service.html#ExecStopPost=

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1492

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1468

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1393

1f196f59cb

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1397

Until now, we were leaving services "enabled"
(symlinks in /etc/systemd/system/multi-user.target.wants/).

We clean these up now. Broken symlinks may still exist in older
installations that enabled/disabled services. We're not taking care
to fix these up. It's just a cosmetic defect anyway.

https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1311#issuecomment-945718866

for matrix_nginx_proxy_proxy_synapse_metrics_basic_auth_key
resolves #1308

when matrix_nginx_proxy_proxy_synapse_metrics is enabled

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