This is an attempt at optimizing service startup.

The effect is most pronounced when many services are restarted one by one.
The systemd service manager role sometimes does this - for example when `just install-service synapse` runs.
In such cases, a 5-second delay for each Synapse worker service
(or other bridge/bot service that waits on the homeserver) quickly adds up to a lot.

When services are all stopped fully and then started, the effect is not so pronounced, because
`matrix-synapse.service` starts first and pulls all worker services (defined as `Wants=` for it).
Later on, when the systemd service manager role "starts" these worker services, they're started already.
Even if they had a 5-second wait each, it would have happened in parallel.

* Inital work, copeid from mautrix-amp PR

* Some fixes leftover code copeid over from whatsapp

* Got it to run and register

* Fixed service issue with docker image

* I now realize I need 2 roles wsproxy and imessage

* Got someting working, still rough

* Closer to working but still not working

* reverting ports

* Update main.yml

* Add matrix-nginx-proxy config for mautrix-wsproxy

* Changed

* Add back file

* fix for error hopefully

* Changed the the way nginx was recieved

* basically did not add anything ugh

* Added some arguments

* just trying stuff now

* Ugh i messed up port number

* Changed docs

* Change dns config

* changed generic secret key

* Testing new nginx proxy

* test

* Fix linting errors

* Add mautrix syncproxy to wsproxy for Android SMS

* WIP

* Move wsproxy to custom

* Squashed commit of the following:

commit 943189a9aa
Merge: 4a229d68 f5a09f30
Author: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>
Date:   Sun Nov 13 08:54:32 2022 +0200

    Merge pull request #2259 from throny/patch-3

    warn users about upgrading to pg15 when using borg

commit 4a229d6870
Merge: 9b326e08 c68def08
Author: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>
Date:   Sun Nov 13 08:53:13 2022 +0200

    Merge pull request #2260 from etkecc/patch-117

    Update ntfy 1.28.0 -> 1.29.0

commit f5a09f30b7
Author: throny <m.throne12@gmail.com>
Date:   Sat Nov 12 23:48:57 2022 +0100

    Update maintenance-postgres.md

commit b12cdbd99d
Author: throny <m.throne12@gmail.com>
Date:   Sat Nov 12 23:40:46 2022 +0100

    Update maintenance-postgres.md

commit c68def0809
Author: Aine <97398200+etkecc@users.noreply.github.com>
Date:   Sat Nov 12 22:01:31 2022 +0000

    Update ntfy 1.28.0 -> 1.29.0

commit adbc09f152
Author: throny <m.throne12@gmail.com>
Date:   Sat Nov 12 11:20:43 2022 +0100

    warn users about upgrading to pg15 when using borg

* Fix linting errors

* Cleanup after merge

* Correct outdated variable names

* Enable both Android and iMessage with wsproxy

* Restructure wsproxy service defs and nginx config

* Fix linter errors

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

* Fix comments for documentation, volumes and ports

* Correct mount syntax

* Complete network and traefik support for wsproxy

* Remove wsproxy data_path

* Fix wsproxy service definitions

* Actually include syncproxy service

* Remove wsproxy PathPrefix, it needs a subdomain

There's no setting in the iMessage bridge that allows a path.
Also don't bind port by default, wsproxy has no TLS.
Syncproxy should never expose a port, it's only internal.

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Co-authored-by: hanthor <jreilly112@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Miguel Alatzar <miguel@natrx.io>
Co-authored-by: Shreyas Ajjarapu <github.tzarina@aleeas.com>
Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>