This adds https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-doc/pull/2409 to the
appservice registrations, enabling synapse to push EDUs to appservices.

Regression since f6097fbba1

Fixes a regression introduced in f6097fbba1fb, which was cauing Synapse
to die with this error message:

> ValueError: sender_localpart needs characters which are not URL encoded.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/806

Fixes a problem like this:
> File "/usr/lib/python3.8/site-packages/mautrix/bridge/e2ee.py", line 79, in __init__
> raise RuntimeError("Unsupported database scheme")

mautrix-python's e2ee.py module expects to find `postgres://` instead of
`postgresql://`.

This makes the `sqlite://` URI match what we were using before
and what the config expects.

Looks like there are some that I missed in 087dbe4ddc

I was thinking that it makes sense to be more specific,
and using `_postgres_` also separated these variables
from the `_database_` variables that ended up in bridge configuration.

However, @jdreichmann makes a good point
(https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/740#discussion_r542281102)
that we don't need to be so specific and can allow for other engines (like MySQL) to use these variables.

Regression since 2d99ade72f and 9bf8ce878e94, respectively.

When SQLite is to be used, these bridges expect an `sqlite://`
connection string, and not a plain file name (path), like Appservice
Discord and mautrix-whatsapp do.

I don't use this bridge, so this is completely untested.

fixes matrix users unable to delete messages

Related to #451 (Github Issue).

I've been thinking of doing before, but haven't.

Now that the Whatsapp bridge does it (since 4797469383),
it makes sense to do it for all other bridges as well.
(Except for the IRC bridge - that one manages most of registration.yaml by itself)