Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1982

One that doesn't trip up ansible-lint, causing `load-failure` errors.

Reference: https://ansible-lint.readthedocs.io/en/latest/default_rules/#var-spacing

Reference: https://ansible-lint.readthedocs.io/en/latest/default_rules/#no-changed-when

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1939

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1749

Official support ends today (2021-11-11).
Synapse still supports v9.6, but we'd better force users to transition
to newer versions anyway.

Until now, we were leaving services "enabled"
(symlinks in /etc/systemd/system/multi-user.target.wants/).

We clean these up now. Broken symlinks may still exist in older
installations that enabled/disabled services. We're not taking care
to fix these up. It's just a cosmetic defect anyway.

It's mildly annoying when trying to execute these scripts while logged
in as a regular user, as the missing execute permissions will hinder
autocompletion even when trying to use with sudo.

These shell scripts don't contain secrets, but may fail when ran by a
regular user. The failure is due to the lack of access to the /matrix
directory, and does not result in any damage.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1070

Well, they still do go to that DB by default,
but our docs give a better command to users, which would do the right
thing.

In short, this makes Synapse a 2nd class citizen,
preparing for a future where it's just one-of-many homeserver software
options.

We also no longer have a default Postgres superuser password,
which improves security.

The changelog explains more as to why this was done
and how to proceed from here.

We'll be adding `.timer` units later on, so it's good to be
more explicit.

We need to suppress systemd service-stopping requests in certain rare
cases like https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/771

That issue seems to describe a case, where a migration from mxisd to
ma1sd was happening (DB files had just been moved), and then we were
attemping to stop `matrix-ma1sd.service` so we could import that database into
Postgres. However, there's neither `matrix-mxisd.service`, nor
`matrix-ma1sd.service` after `migrate_mxisd.yml` had just run, so
stopping `matrix-ma1sd.service` was failing.

In cases where pgloader is not enough and we need to do some additional
migration work after it, we can now use
`additional_psql_statements_list` and
`additional_psql_statements_db_name`.

This is to be used when migrating `matrix-registration`'s data at the
very least.

We were running into conflicts, because having initialized
the roles (users) and databases, trying to import leads to
errors (role XXX already exists, etc.).

We were previously ignoring the Synapse database (`homeserver`)
when upgrading/importing, because that one gets created by default
whenever the container starts.

For our additional databases, it's a similar situation now.
It's not created by default as soon as Postgres starts with an empty
database, but rather we create it as part of running the playbook.

So we either need to skip those role/database creation statements
while upgrading/importing, or to avoid creating the additional database
and rely on the import for that. I've gone for the former, because
it's already similar to what we were doing and it's simpler
(it lets `setup_postgres.yml` be the same in all scenarios).

Instead of passing the connection string, we can now pass a name of a
variable, which contains a connection string.

Both are supported for having extra flexibility.

This can be used by various bridges, etc., to import an SQLite
(or some other supported) database into Postgres.

Since we'll likely have generic SQLite database importing
via [pgloader](https://pgloader.io/) for migrating bridge
databases from SQLite to Postgres, we'd rather avoid
calling the "import Synapse SQLite database" command
as just `--tags=import-sqlite-db`.

Similarly, for the media store, we'd like to mention that it's
related to Synapse as well.

We'd like to be more explicit, so as to be less confusing,
especially in light of other homeserver implementations
coming in the future.

Being more explicit sounds better.