Continuation of 9f2eff2ac7

Provoked by 7749048bf8
(https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/3353)

commit cf8637efac
Author: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>
Date:   Sun Mar 24 19:14:57 2024 +0200

    Make devture_systemd_docker_base_ipv6_enabled automatically reconfigure geerlingguy/ansible-role-docker

    Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/3218

commit dc7af3bc7d
Author: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>
Date:   Sun Mar 24 19:10:31 2024 +0200

    Replace matrix_ipv6_enabled with devture_systemd_docker_base_ipv6_enabled

    Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/3218

commit 07e900d6a2
Author: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>
Date:   Sun Mar 24 19:01:51 2024 +0200

    Improve matrix_ipv6_enabled comments

commit 3f03ca7f69
Author: Tilo Spannagel <development@tilosp.de>
Date:   Sat Mar 9 19:27:50 2024 +0000

    Add setting to enable ipv6

Most of these files were defining a service, usually toward the end.
These lines have been moved upward.

Some components (mautrix-signal, mautrix-gmessages, etc.) were defining
a service conditionally (only if metrics are exposed, etc). This was
causing issues like these in the Traefik logs:

> level=error msg="service \"matrix-mautrix-twitter\" error: port is missing" providerName=docker container=matrix-mautrix-twitter-..

Related to:

- https://github.com/matrix-org/rageshake/issues/69
- https://github.com/matrix-org/rageshake/pull/70

BuildX is required for building this container image.

This makes it consistent with the rest of the playbook:
- there's a default config which has various variables controlling
  settings
- there's also an `_extension_yaml` variable, which lets you override it

We disable it via `group_vars/matrix_servers`, as we do for all other
roles.