Most of these files were defining a service, usually toward the end.
These lines have been moved upward.

Some components (mautrix-signal, mautrix-gmessages, etc.) were defining
a service conditionally (only if metrics are exposed, etc). This was
causing issues like these in the Traefik logs:

> level=error msg="service \"matrix-mautrix-twitter\" error: port is missing" providerName=docker container=matrix-mautrix-twitter-..

This makes it consistent with the rest of the playbook:
- there's a default config which has various variables controlling
  settings
- there's also an `_extension_yaml` variable, which lets you override it