The newly extracted role also has native Traefik support,
so we no longer need to rely on `matrix-nginx-proxy` for
reverse-proxying to Ntfy.

The new role uses port `80` inside the container (not `8080`, like
before), because that's the default assumption of the officially
published container image. Using a custom port (like `8080`), means the
default healthcheck command (which hardcodes port `80`) doesn't work.
Instead of fiddling to override the healthcheck command, we've decided
to stick to the default port instead. This only affects the
inside-the-container port, not any external ports.

The new role also supports adding the network ranges of the container's
multiple additional networks as "exempt hosts". Previously, only one
network's address range was added to "exempt hosts".

Related to 6a52be7987 and 28e7ef9c71f02

Previously, it had to go through matrix-nginx-proxy.
It's exposed to Traefik directly via container labels now

This gets us started on adding a Traefik role and hooking Traefik:

- directly to services which support Traefik - we only have a few of
  these right now, but the list will grow

- to matrix-nginx-proxy for most services that integrate with
  matrix-nginx-proxy right now

Traefik usage should be disabled by default for now and nothing should
change for people just yet.

Enabling these experiments requires additional configuration like this:

```yaml
devture_traefik_ssl_email_address: '.....'

matrix_playbook_traefik_role_enabled: true
matrix_playbook_traefik_labels_enabled: true

matrix_ssl_retrieval_method: none

matrix_nginx_proxy_https_enabled: false

matrix_nginx_proxy_container_http_host_bind_port: ''
matrix_nginx_proxy_container_federation_host_bind_port: ''

matrix_nginx_proxy_trust_forwarded_proto: true

matrix_nginx_proxy_x_forwarded_for: '$proxy_add_x_forwarded_for'

matrix_coturn_enabled: false
```

What currently works is:
reverse-proxying for all nginx-proxy based services **except** for the Matrix homeserver
(both Client-Server an Federation traffic for the homeserver don't work yet)