Improves performance of media store operations.

The goal is to allow these to be on separate partitions
(including remote ones in the future).

Because the `silviof/docker-matrix` image chowns
everything to MATRIX_UID:MATRIX_GID on startup,
we definitely don't want to include `media_store` in it.
If it's on a remote FS, it would cause a slow startup.

Also, adding some safety checks to the "import media store"
task, after passing a wrong path to it on multiple occassions and
wondering what's wrong.

Also, making logging configurable. The default of keeping 10x100MB
log files is likely excessive and people may want to change that.