`matrix_nginx_proxy_enabled` is usually set to false by users, this is when
the warning should be displayed.

Until now, we were leaving services "enabled"
(symlinks in /etc/systemd/system/multi-user.target.wants/).

We clean these up now. Broken symlinks may still exist in older
installations that enabled/disabled services. We're not taking care
to fix these up. It's just a cosmetic defect anyway.

The default scalar.vector.im integrations manager doesn't support custom
URL's for etherpad, therefore Dimension needs to be enabled.