Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2369

Regression since https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/2290

* added dendrite captcha options

* added hcaptcha doc

* proper url

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

* Update main.yml

* renamed captcha vars to new naming scheme

* change vars to new format

* Rename back some incorrect renamed variables

These variables are either not just part of the `client_api` subsection,
or are not even part of that section at all. They shouldn't have been
renamed in baaef2ed616e2645550d9

* Fix up naming inconsistencies

Some of these variables had been renamed in one place,
but not in other places, so it couldn't have worked that way.

* Add validation/deprecation for renamed Dendrite variables

Related to 4097898f885cf4c73, baaef2ed616e2645550, 68f4418092fa8ad
and a0b4a0ae6b2f1f18

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

- forego removing Docker images - it's not effective anyway, because it
  only removes the last version.. which is a drop in the bucket, usually

- do not reload systemd - it's none of our business. `--tags=start`,
  etc., handle this

- combine all uninstall tasks under a single block, which only runs if
  we detect traces (a leftover systemd .service file) of the component.
  If no such .service is detected, we skip them all. This may lead to
  incorect cleanup in rare cases, but is good enough for the most part.

This paves the way for installing other roles into `roles/galaxy` using `ansible-galaxy`,
similar to how it's done in:

- https://github.com/spantaleev/gitea-docker-ansible-deploy
- https://github.com/spantaleev/nextcloud-docker-ansible-deploy

In the near future, we'll be removing a lot of the shared role code from here
and using upstream roles for it. Some of the core `matrix-*` roles have
already been extracted out into other reusable roles:

- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.postgres
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.systemd_docker_base
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.timesync
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.vars_preserver
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.playbook_runtime_messages
- https://github.com/devture/com.devture.ansible.role.playbook_help

We just need to migrate to those.