Related to 0241c71a4c

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/3270#issuecomment-2143782962

With this change, it should be possible for people to adjust the Docker
dependency from `docker.service` to something else (e.g. `pkg-ContainerManager-dockerd.service`),
or to completely eliminate it by setting `devture_systemd_docker_base_docker_service_name` to an empty string.

This makes it easier for people to use the playbook against a Synology DSM server.

This is actually authored by Julian Foad here
(https://lab.trax.im/matrix/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy), but was in
need of a rebase and various adjustments caused by huge playbook
refactoring that landed in the past months.

This rework is completely untested.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/266