Continuation of 316d653d3e

As suggested in #63 (Github issue), splitting the
playbook's logic into multiple roles will be beneficial for
maintainability.

This patch realizes this split. Still, some components
affect others, so the roles are not really independent of one
another. For example:
- disabling mxisd (`matrix_mxisd_enabled: false`), causes Synapse
and riot-web to reconfigure themselves with other (public)
Identity servers.

- enabling matrix-corporal (`matrix_corporal_enabled: true`) affects
how reverse-proxying (by `matrix-nginx-proxy`) is done, in order to
put matrix-corporal's gateway server in front of Synapse

We may be able to move away from such dependencies in the future,
at the expense of a more complicated manual configuration, but
it's probably not worth sacrificing the convenience we have now.

As part of this work, the way we do "start components" has been
redone now to use a loop, as suggested in #65 (Github issue).
This should make restarting faster and more reliable.

Pretty much all variables live in their own `matrix_<whatever>`
prefix now and are grouped closer together in the default
variables file (`roles/matrix-server/defaults/main.yml`).

Moving away from using the default bridge network to using our own.
This isolates our services from other Docker containers running
on the default network on the same host.

The benefits are that:

- isolation is a little better - we no longer share a default
bridge network with any other containers that might be running on the host

- there are no longer hard dependencies - we do service discovery
by DNS name, and not via explicit `--link` usage during container start,
so containers can start out of order and fail without bringing down others
with them
(`matrix-nginx-proxy` can continue running, even if one of the other services dies)

In the future, when other services get introduced,
the increased resilience and simplicity will help as well.

This playbook just tries to avoid trying to setup a Postgres 10
database with existing 9.x files, as that makes Postgres complain.

Due to this, existing installs (still on 9.x) are detected
and left on Postgres 9.x.
They need to be upgraded to Postgres 10.x manually.