Using `matrix_synapse_*` variables within the `matrix-grafana` role
is not a good practice.

We now have a `matrix_grafana_default_home_dashboard_path` variable
with a good universal default value and we override it via
`group_vars/matrix_servers` based on enabled components, etc.

This is a better fix for https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/2133

People often report and ask about these "failures".
More-so previously, when the `docker kill/rm` output was collected,
but it still happens now when people do `systemctl status
matrix-something` and notice that it says "FAILURE".

Suppressing to avoid further time being wasted on saying "this is
expected".

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1626

Reverts b1b4ba501fdfaa, 90c9801c560b6, a3c84f78ca9c65a, ..

I haven't really traced it (yet), but on some servers, I'm observing
`ansible-playbook ... --tags=start` completing very slowly, waiting
to stop services. I can't reproduce this on all Matrix servers I manage.
I suspect that either the systemd version is to blame or that some
specific service is not responding well to some `docker kill/rm` command.

`ExecStop` seems to work great in all cases and it's what we've been
using for a very long time, so I'm reverting to that.

ExecStopPost should allow us to clean up (docker kill + docker rm)
even if the ExecStart (docker run ..) command failed, and not just after
a graceful service stop was initiated.

Source: https://www.freedesktop.org/software/systemd/man/systemd.service.html#ExecStopPost=

Co-authored-by: Aaron Raimist <aaron@raim.ist>

- duplicate X-Content-Type-Options
- X-Frame-Options header
- Referrer-Policy [Might consider adding variable]
- Secure flag with cookies
- matrix_grafana_content_security_policy variable for [Content Security Policy](https://grafana.com/docs/grafana/latest/administration/configuration/#content_security_policy)

It seems like it doesn't cause any issues for any of these services.

Also includes the dashboards for Synapse and for Node Exporter.

Again has only been tested on debian amd64 so far, but the grafana docker image is available for arm64 and arm32. Nice.