Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/4445

Signed-off-by: Suguru Hirahara <acioustick@noreply.codeberg.org>

`-t` works on both old and new Docker versions, so it's best to use that.

Switching from doing "post-start" loop hacks to running the container
in 3 steps: `create` + potentially connect to additional networks + `start`.
This way, the container would be connected to all its networks even at
the very beginning of its life.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2090