Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/2427

`metrics_enabled` should only expose the metrics locally, on the
container network, so that a local Prometheus can consume them.

Exposing them publicly should be done via a separate toggle (`metrics_proxying_enabled`).
This is how all other roles work, so this makes these mautrix roles consistent with the rest.

These `init.yml` (now `inject_into_nginx_proxy.yml`) tasks do not need
to `always` run. They only need to run for `setup-all` and
`setup-nginx-proxy`. Unless we're dealing with these 2 tags, we can
spare ourselves a lot of work.

This patch also moves the `when` statement from `init.yml` into
`main.yml` in an effort to further optimize things by potentially
avoiding the extra file include.