Bridges start matrix-synapse.service as a dependency, but
Synapse is sometimes slow to start, while bridges are quick to
hit it and die (if unavailable).

They'll auto-restart later, but .. this still breaks `--tags=start`,
which doesn't wait long enough for such a restart to happen.

This attempts to slow down bridge startup enough to ensure Synapse
is up and no failures happen at all.

The goal is to move each bridge into its own separate role.
This commit starts off the work on this with 2 bridges:
- mautrix-telegram
- mautrix-whatsapp

Each bridge's role (including these 2) is meant to:

- depend only on the matrix-base role

- integrate nicely with the matrix-synapse role (if available)

- integrate nicely with the matrix-nginx-proxy role (if available and if
required). mautrix-telegram bridge benefits from integrating with
it.

- not break if matrix-synapse or matrix-nginx-proxy are not used at all

This has been provoked by #174 (Github Issue).