Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1480

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1242

Until now, we were leaving services "enabled"
(symlinks in /etc/systemd/system/multi-user.target.wants/).

We clean these up now. Broken symlinks may still exist in older
installations that enabled/disabled services. We're not taking care
to fix these up. It's just a cosmetic defect anyway.

This bridge doesn't support SQLite anyway, so it's not necessary
to carry around configuration fields and code for migration from SQLite
to Postgres. There's nothing to migrate.

This configuration is supposed to be kept clean and not reference variables defined in other roles.

`group_vars/matrix_servers` redefines these to hook our various roles together.