Update grafana 10.1.1 -> 10.1.2

Make borgmatic container tmp dir size configurable

Only available since v16.0-2 of the Postgres role.

Many of these do depend on the Synapse master process (`matrix-synapse.service`),
so it makes sense to do it.

Furthermore, we're doing it so that one can stop the `matrix-synapse.service`
service and have systemd cascade this into stopping all the workers as well.

This is useful for easily stopping all of Synapse, so that Postgres
upgrades (`--tags=upgrade-postgres`) can happen cleanly.
Postgres upgrades currently stop `devture_postgres_systemd_services_to_stop_for_maintenance_list` which
includes Synapse, but stopping just the master process and leaving workers running is not safe enough and sometimes leads to errors like:

> ERROR:  insert or update on table "event_forward_extremities" violates foreign key constraint "event_forward_extremities_event_id"

With this dependency in place, stopping `matrix-synapse.service` will stop all Synapse processes.

Update matrix-appservice-discord

Update synapse 1.92.1 -> 1.92.2 (security fix)

Update element 1.11.42 -> 1.11.43

Update Element 1.11.41 -> 1.11.42

Update jitsi v8922-0 -> v8922-1

Related to https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/pull/16265

Update Draupnir from 1.85.0 to 1.85.1

Fix mautrix-gmessages branch

Update Draupnir from 1.84.0 to 1.85.0

Draupnir moved its repo on github from the namespace of its maintainer Gnuxie to a newly created Github Organisation the-draupnir-project and this commit reflects this.

Draupnir changed home from Gnuxie/Draupnir to the-draupnir-project/Draupnir and this commit reflects this.

Update sliding-sync 0.99.9 -> 0.99.10

Update sliding-sync 0.99.8 -> 0.99.9

Update synapse 1.91.1 -> 1.91.2

enable etherpad framing by default - it's meant to be embedded

Update prometheus 2.45.0 -> 2.47.0