* rewrite `just update` command to provide a one-line command to update everything

* update prefix

* uncomment update-self

* Revert requirements.yml updates not belonging to this PR

* Justfile and documentation updates to make things clearer

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Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

Issues and Pull Requests were not migrated to the new
organization/repository, so `matrix-org/synapse/pull` and
`matrix-org/synapse/issues` references were kept as-is.

`matrix-org/synapse-s3-storage-provider` references were also kept,
as that module still continues living under the `matrix-org` organization.

This patch mainly aims to change documentation-related things, not actual
usage in full yet. For polish that, another more comprehensive patch is coming later.

The old link returned a 404 so I thought I throw in joinmatrix.org :)

It had an extra dot, which resulted in a question mark and a dot after each other

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1282

It's mostly due to Docker CE dropping its repositories (and support) for
Debian 9.
If one installs Docker manually (likely a package named `docker.io`), it
will likely still work.
In any case, Debian 9 is old and end-of-life now, so advertising support
for it is not productive.

This reverts commit 1fb54a37cb.

Seems like it's been pulled or something. It used to exist, but not
anymore. Not sure what's going on.

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1017

Related to
https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1010

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1010

This reverts commit f825c7c263.

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1010

All other examples show the config to lower the memory usage on the server