& restrict federation listener; frontend_proxy / user_dir don't need it

.. alphabetically and put those not documented as multi-instance
capable on ports ending on zero.

Is the PID magic gonna work? or will it need an ExecStartPost hack..

- cherry-pick "Ensure worker config exists in systemd service (#7528)"
  from synapse d74cdc1a42e8b487d74c214b1d0ca575429d546a:
  "check that the worker config file exists instead of silently failing."

If the SQLite database was from an older version of Synapse, it appears
that Synapse would try to run migrations on it first, before importing.
This was failing, because the file wasn't writable.

Hopefully, this fixes the problem.

Interestingly, no one has reported this failure before #662 (Github
Issue).

It doesn't make sense to keep saying that we support such old Ansible
versions, when we're not even testing on anything close to those.

Time is also passing and such versions are getting more and more
ancient. It's time we bumped our requirements to something that is more
likely to work.

I don't believe Ansible v1 would even go as far as executing this
sanity check, but.. Adding an extra defensive check for completeness.

Related to #658 (Github Issue).

According to the docs, "e2ee" is already under "io.element":
  https://github.com/vector-im/element-web/blob/develop/docs/e2ee.md#disabling-encryption-by-default
however "jitsi" is still under "im.vector.riot":
  https://github.com/vector-im/element-web/blob/develop/docs/jitsi.md#configuring-element-to-use-your-self-hosted-jitsi-server

For now let's just maintain backward and forward compatibility for both
settings since the client version is out of the control of this
playbook.

showLabsSettings is the new enableLabs I guess. enableLabs doesn't seem to do anything anymore. It had been deprecated for a while.

This PR also removes @riot-bot:matrix.org as the default welcome_user_id since it doesn't exist anymore.

Related to #643 (Github Issue)

This is mainly to address SSL renewal not working for us due to:
- https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/71213
- https://github.com/ansible/ansible/pull/71207

Using the cron module was hacky anyway. We shouldn't need an extra
level of buggy abstraction to manage a cronjob file.

Fixes #106 (Github Issue).

We recently had a report of the Postgres backup container's log file
growing the size of /var/lib/docker until it ran out of disk space.

Trying to prevent similar problems in the future.

Certain more-minimal Debian installations may not have
lsb-release installed, which makes the playbook fail.

We need lsb-release on Debian, so that ansible_lsb
could tell us if this is Debian or Raspbian.