Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1749

This update brings stable threads support

People often report and ask about these "failures".
More-so previously, when the `docker kill/rm` output was collected,
but it still happens now when people do `systemctl status
matrix-something` and notice that it says "FAILURE".

Suppressing to avoid further time being wasted on saying "this is
expected".

* add borg backup

* lint fix

* add exlclude patterns

* missed in the #1726 fix for honoroit

* feedback

* Fix indentation

* feedback

* feedback

* feedback

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

Reverts b1b4ba501fdfaa, 90c9801c560b6, a3c84f78ca9c65a, ..

I haven't really traced it (yet), but on some servers, I'm observing
`ansible-playbook ... --tags=start` completing very slowly, waiting
to stop services. I can't reproduce this on all Matrix servers I manage.
I suspect that either the systemd version is to blame or that some
specific service is not responding well to some `docker kill/rm` command.

`ExecStop` seems to work great in all cases and it's what we've been
using for a very long time, so I'm reverting to that.

Hopefully fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/1518

Discussed in https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1514