Until now, we were leaving services "enabled"
(symlinks in /etc/systemd/system/multi-user.target.wants/).

We clean these up now. Broken symlinks may still exist in older
installations that enabled/disabled services. We're not taking care
to fix these up. It's just a cosmetic defect anyway.

Upgrade grafana (8.1.2 -> 8.1.3)

This commit introduces a new role that downloads and installs the
prometheus community postgres exporter  https://github.com/prometheus-community/postgres_exporter.
A new credential is added to matrix_postgres_additional_databases that
allows the exporter access to the database to gather statistics.
A new dashboard was added to the grafana role, with some refactoring
to enable the dashboard only if the new role is enabled.
I've included some basic instructions for how to enable the role in
the Docs section.

In terms of testing, I've tested enabling the role, and disabling
it to make sure it cleans up the container and systemd role.

Co-authored-by: Aaron Raimist <aaron@raim.ist>

- duplicate X-Content-Type-Options
- X-Frame-Options header
- Referrer-Policy [Might consider adding variable]
- Secure flag with cookies
- matrix_grafana_content_security_policy variable for [Content Security Policy](https://grafana.com/docs/grafana/latest/administration/configuration/#content_security_policy)

Latest stable grafana version is [7.5.4 (2021-04-14)](https://github.com/grafana/grafana/releases/tag/v7.5.4)

Signed-off-by: Ahmad Haghighi <haghighi@fedoraproject.org>

Same reasoning as in 1cd251ed78

It seems like it doesn't cause any issues for any of these services.

Also includes the dashboards for Synapse and for Node Exporter.

Again has only been tested on debian amd64 so far, but the grafana docker image is available for arm64 and arm32. Nice.