* appservice: add and use matrix_homeserver_* vars

* appservice: use the new vars

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

Co-authored-by: Slavi Pantaleev <slavi@devture.com>

Related to https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/pull/1939

Details here: https://docs.ansible.com/ansible/devel/porting_guides/porting_guide_6.html#id36

Basically:

```yaml
- name: Prior to 2.13
  debug:
    msg: '[1] + {{ [2] }}'

- name: 2.13 and forward
  debug:
    msg: '{{ [1] + [2] }}'
```

Interestingly, we had been using the new/safe syntax in lofs of places.

We were using the broken one in many others though. Hopefully all
instances were fixed by this patch.

bridge requires the daemon, so start it first

We'll be adding `.timer` units later on, so it's good to be
more explicit.