This is an attempt at optimizing service startup.

The effect is most pronounced when many services are restarted one by one.
The systemd service manager role sometimes does this - for example when `just install-service synapse` runs.
In such cases, a 5-second delay for each Synapse worker service
(or other bridge/bot service that waits on the homeserver) quickly adds up to a lot.

When services are all stopped fully and then started, the effect is not so pronounced, because
`matrix-synapse.service` starts first and pulls all worker services (defined as `Wants=` for it).
Later on, when the systemd service manager role "starts" these worker services, they're started already.
Even if they had a 5-second wait each, it would have happened in parallel.

* intial commit

* changed

* Reorderd

* merge old changes

* added changes to matrix_servers

* Remove duplicate discord

* Update main.yml

* added google message to configuring-playbook.md

* Changed docs to add new changes

* Changed bug?

* Removed problem j2 values

* Rename a service files

* change how password hash string

* Changed port number

* Change how the local part works

* Revert "Merge pull request #8 from shreyasajj/wsproxy"

This reverts commit bb1b8fc67ca39f63ca77e70077be99cb2b32c4de, reversing
changes made to cce6ba5f9d.

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Co-authored-by: Shreyas Ajjarapu <github.tzarina@aleeas.com>