Fixes #586 (Github Issue)

Use playbook variables instead of textual place-holders for the domain names.

Discussed in #412 (Github Issue).

This supersedes #59 (Github Pull Request),
which was greatly beneficial in creating our sample Apache configuration.

This was mentioned in #27 (Github Pull Request),
but it's just now that the nginx Docker image actually supports
TLS v1.3 and we can enable it.

Adds support for managing certificates manually and for
having the playbook generate self-signed certificates for you.

With this, Let's Encrypt usage is no longer required.

Fixes Github issue #50.

We've had some people get confused into installing
Matrix Corporal and having pain with that.

With this documentation change, we try to make it clearer
that it's an advanced feature not to be touched unless
you know what you're doing.

On a similar note, we also make sure other things are properly
labeled as "(optional)" and/or "(advanced)".

It's been incorrect since 23e4a473