Move the draupnir role to use modern ansible docker modules so we get access to fancy features like buildx and smart pulls. No more force pull bullshit.

And also make the force restart logic that this commit breaks work again but much smarter. Since if we are pulling diffrent tags (Will happen a lot with test environments) then we dont need to force a restart unessecarily.

This also allows people who exclusively run bot mode to still benefit from conditional restarts even if targeting a moving tag like main or latest.