Update installing.md

Fix link to using external PostgreSQL in README

Add mautrix-telegram to bridge with telegram services

Fix typo
Move mautrix variable in `defaults/main.yml` exclusively

I've found the previous 10K default value to be way too low
on a bunch of servers I'm running, so it's now up to
100K and made configurable.

Closes Github issue #5

Closes Github issue #3

We've been using Goofys for a long time instead.

Regression since a302a7d7489ec,
which made the Matrix Client API only available on
the http port (8008) and not over the federation port (8448).

This disables federation on the 80 port, as it's
not necessary. We also disable the old Angular webclient.

For the federation port (8448), we disable the client APIs
as those are not necessary. Those can even cause trouble
if one doesn't know about them and thinks that guarding the client
APIs at the 80 port is enough.