add packages support to the aux role

Update aux role (support commands)

chore(deps): update linuxserver/ddclient docker tag to v3.11.2

feat: allow renovate to update ansible dependencies

rearrange requirements.yml and update components

Update matrixdotorg/sygnal Docker tag to v0.13.0

Fixes https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy/issues/2999
Related to https://github.com/geerlingguy/ansible-role-docker/pull/410

Update vectorim/element-web Docker tag to v1.11.50

Update halfshot/matrix-hookshot Docker tag to v4.6.0

Update borgmatic 1.8.4 -> 1.8.5

Update ntfy 2.7.0 -> 2.8.0

fix included postgres role name in matrix_servers

The new version supports a new `devture_postgres_backup_postgres_role_include_name` variable,
which we'll make use of later.

fix jitsi auth, again

Update synapse-s3-storage-provider

looks like newer version is required for synapse 1.96.1

Update matrixdotorg/synapse Docker tag to v1.96.0

Update dock.mau.dev/mautrix/discord Docker tag to v0.6.4

Update dock.mau.dev/mautrix/gmessages Docker tag to v0.2.2

Update dock.mau.dev/mautrix/whatsapp Docker tag to v0.10.4

grafana v10.2.1; jitsi v9078; prometheus v2.48.0

Update matrixdotorg/mjolnir Docker tag to v1.6.5

Update dependency geerlingguy.docker to v7.0.2

Update prometheus node exporter v1.7.0